On Leaving the Man: A Few Words.

Ok so, I just want to set some things straight, and yes I have posted this before on other sites but sadly I've had to post it again.

I left the man I was with for 7 years in January. I have been separated from him for a little over three months. I haven't posted anything about it on here before because it is nothing to do with anyone else aside from me and him but apparently people are still stirring things and so I am making it publicly known now.

Nothing bad happened between us.

NOTHING! 

I left him.

IT WAS MY DECISION.

He did nothing to hurt me, he didn't cheat, he didn't abuse me, nothing bad happened. I just fell out of love with him in the way that I feel I should be in love with someone if I am going to spend the rest of my life with them. He has always been a very very special person to me and an incredible friend and I hope that one day in time we will be friends again. In the mean time, yes, it is hard, but I am living life day by day, as is he.

As you can probably tell from this blog, I have a lot of issues that I need to work on personally and I am finally beginning to do that, I am working on making me a better person and fixing myself. I have no bad feelings towards him or the years that we spent together as they are always going to be an incredibly special time in my life.

I am so happy to hear that he is doing well, coping and moving on with his life day by day, seeing his friends and moving on and I wish him nothing but the happiness and love that he deserves in life as he is one of the most amazing people I know that I will ever meet.

If you have questions about why I left, then ask me, because if I find out that any of my friends have been stirring shit surrounding it or listening to other people who are venomous and have **NO IDEA** what the hell they are talking about then you will feel my wrath, and that is not a pretty sight.

I am not posting this because I want sympathy, because I don't. What I want is for him to be able to move on with his life and be happy without poison being spread about him when it simply isn't true. He is an amazing man and I can't thank him enough for the past 7 years.